Today while talking to my best friend I found myself in a rather complicated situation , a situation I never wanted should occur to me but it so did and I had nothing to control it over .
The past few weeks had been challenging not because I don’t have an ability to make new relations or maintain them but because the past relations had been pulling me over and there was no way I could escape any of them .
Some of them needed more care , in some I wanted more attention but as they say you never get what you so demand , you get what you deserve .
But today something was an impetus to the thought that I need to close certain books because they were pulling me to a direction where there was no way of escape and so I asked her DO I NEED TO CLOSE CERTAIN BOOKS , DO I NEED TO MOVE ON ?.
What she told me was something that is going to stay with me forever
Here I present honest reasons why I think you should end certain things and provide a closure psychologically .
1) LESSONS LEARNT ARE LESSONS COMPLETED
Every person who has ever come into your life has a lesson that you need to learn . The fact that you hold on to a certain person means that either you have failed to learn a lesson or they have failed to learn it or may be you never realized it . Until and unless you don’t realize and learn it , histories will repeat itself . You will find yourself in situations over and over again but you will fail to come out of it .
2) IT IS BETTER TO GET ELECTROCUTED ONCE AND FOR ALL
Who likes to get electrocuted again and again with the same intensity . Sure no one does until you are some electricity man who feeds on the current . So yes exceptions are always there . For the rest you may agree to me that its better to be a medium for the current once and for all . the intensity is enough to get us classically conditioned to not touch the point again and seal it to end .
3) Leaving the book empty means anyone can write it over
When you say you are in charge or in control of your life you should be in control of the things you did or will do , nobody should have the authority to rewrite your past or mold your present . So it is very necessary to put a THE END tag so that no one interferes with the masterpiece .
4) Water , water everywhere not a drop to drink
The point is simple if you will leave all the flows open you will drown , Similarly if you will leave all emotional channels open you will drown because emotions have the capacity to take you with them . So you need to block certain channels so that you stay in an equilibrium .
5)Your mind and soul needs to start again
It is said a new beginning is the end of another beginning so you need to end a certain journey to get to the new one . It is a certain law of nature and more importantly your soul needs a push and a startover because it needs a certain transfer of energy .
6) Understand energy is just a transfer , you are just avoiding a form of it .
We all must consider this very essential point , by avoiding a certain person or situation we are just avoiding a certain form of energy not the energy in general . So we need to make sure that we are very comfortable with the form we are taking in . Only when we feel we are aware and capable enough to rule with that energy we will be presented with that in the future .
7)It is ok to get through one book at a time .
Many people including myself have a habit of getting to know the best of each book or person . Which means that we are continuously looking at different books at the same time . Though it is helpful for a while it becomes overly stressful later . So we can just read one book at a time that also helps.
8) It is not a dead end but a lakshman rekha
For the people who aren’t aware of the term Lakshman rekha , it is a mythological take over from the epic Ramayan . It protected goddess Sita from a demon . Now many take this in a wrong way ( I will be clearing out the misconception in the next post ) , for me it means that it prevents the other person or situation to come in but allows us to move through it . So the end would actually enable us to control our so lost territory .
9) Finally , it lets you move on .
Remember we don’t need to end everything just the things that drown us over .
Thankyou for reading
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